How can a man charm multiple women in many different countries at the same time, without the women ever knowing each other?
His initial tactic in the beginning revolves around:
1) Creating a sense of obligation through “acts of kindness”, and
2) Choosing the right victim.
1.Creating a sense of obligation
How he creates this, is through abusing something called “the law of reciprocity”. This law works by the man doing a lot of nice things for you, to make you feel that you must return the kindness.
An easy example of this law is: If someone buys you lunch, you feel you have to buy them lunch next time. Not hard to understand, right?
Now imagine he takes you out on a really romantic first date. He listens to you a lot, looks easy going and later in the night starts getting a bit touchy, but in a very polite way. He acts like he's new to dating and all.
When you meet him again, he brings you nice personalised gifts from places he visited. He even tells you he's booked a ticket to see you again. It's hard to say no to someone who seems so into you and keeps doing nice things for you, right?
But actually, he's got a plan. He's being super nice in the beginning to make you feel like you have to be nice back to him in the future, which is his way of tricking you.
How will you be nice to him? In the way he has planned and predicted, of course.
2. Choosing the right victim
Finding women is a little like sales to him; it is a numbers game. He will go to places where his target will be likely to be found, dressed to impress. He looks for beautiful women who are by themselves. When he approaches them, he will radiate a calming, harmless, and comforting presence. It’s as if he is not desperate at all.
He usually goes for women who might fall for his tricks more easily, maybe because they're feeling a bit vulnerable or really want some affection and validation. It's a bit tricky to explain, but he's really good at this, just like how some people are great at finding the best deals when they're shopping. Can you see it? It is the art of deceiving love.
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